NEWSLETTER NUMBER THIRTY FIVE
WISE WORDS ABOUT FORGIVENESS
To forgive a person who has made mistakes is not often easy. It is how much we perceive the hurt that has been imposed on us, which depicts the way we can resolve matters in our own heart, mind and finally in our lives.
Forgiveness can be obtained only when we, as a person, have healed enough to be able to finally walk away from that pain and grief.
Not everybody can do it, as the torment sometimes can remain for a lifetime and that individual’s pain is constant, raw and daily there.
Even with help on a professional basis, it is not always easy to bear. The longer we entrench ourselves in that pain, the longer it will last.
To be able to move away from that person, who inflicted that pain, is the only solution to full recovery and peace of mind. Healing and peace cannot be achieved in an instant.
Depending on the severity of the injury and abuse, so the sensations can last many years – the trauma deep in the subconscious mind.
But gradually, over a period of time with much love and understanding, the individual can experience a time of peace and tranquillity, where life is restored and a feeling that one can at last learn to build a new life away from the abuser.
Life then begins to change for that individual and help is given in so many ways. They become stronger, more resilient and can begin to feel part of a community again.
Then, as the individual evolves through patience and work on their recovery, so then over time forgiveness can occur.
We have to look also at what drove that individual to hurt us, for they would not only have hurt us, but many before us.
We have to recognise that we are not the only victims and that many have suffered in varying degrees by the abuser.
We must stand tall and begin to learn self-respect and self-love and that will help us in becoming strong once again, thus leaving us able to carry on with life and not to become the victim again.
The choice has to be ours. Forgiveness to that individual and also to grant forgiveness to ourselves for allowing it to happen in the first place, is to recognise in us a strength not thought possible before.
Jenny Ayers
Monday, 30th January 2012
Wisdom and Forecasts continue to be sent out on Twitter and now also our new site which can be seen at www.jandmayers.blogspot.com
The insights for today can be seen on jandmayers:
Vladimir Putin is facing very difficult political times as mounting opposition is now forcing him to dictate matters in a most underhand way. Russia will see the man for who he is, not for the people of Russia but for his own political power. Putin will be ruthless to stop any true opposition. All must now watch out. The people will have their say.
Also on ladylydialondon:
The Taliban now wish to speak and to become part of an Afghan Government. They will find it not easy to agree terms, as they are still so steadfast in their ways. There is still growing hostility between Hamid Karzai and Taliban militia. He is not prepared to share power wishing it all for himself. Hamid Karzai, who is fed millions by the West, will not wish to relinquish any of it. Corruption is still fife and he grows fat on it.
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Received on New Year’s Day, this hope from a lady in Portugal
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We are grateful for the lady who sent us this, but pleased be advised that we are reliably informed that it is a hoax and it’s the second time around, so there is no need to be at all concerned – just to let you know…
JUST FOR YOUR INFORMATION!!!!
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ALERT FYI TO ALL. Dave's brother is a very advanced programmer who does computer work for a living and has a high up status with Microsoft. He doesn't send these if they aren't real. If he says this is for real, it for sure is. Be aware. VIRUS COMING ! Hi All, I checked with Norton Anti-Virus, and they are gearing up for this virus! I checked Snopes, and it is for real. Get this E-mail message sent around to your contacts ASAP. PLEASE FORWARD THIS WARNING AMONG FRIENDS, FAMILY AND CONTACTS!
You should be alert during the next few days. Do not open any message with an attachment entitled POSTCARD FROM HALLMARK , regardless who sent it to you. It is a virus which opens A POSTCARD IMAGE, which 'burns' the whole hard disc C of your computer.
This virus will be received from someone who has your e-mail address in his/her contact list. This is the reason why you need to send this e-mail to all your contacts. It is better to receive this message 25 times than to receive the virus and open it.
If you receive a mail called' POSTCARD,' even though sent to you by a friend, do not open it! Shut down your computer immediately. This is the worst virus announced by CNN.
It has been classified by Microsoft as the most destructive virus ever. This virus was discovered by McAfee yesterday, and there is no repair yet for this kind of virus. This virus simply destroys the Zero Sector of the Hard Disc, where the vital information is kept. COPY THIS E-MAIL, AND SEND IT TO YOUR FRIENDS . REMEMBER: IF YOU SEND IT TO THEM, YOU WILL BENEFIT ALL OF US |
"You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have" ~Unknown
Lost Teachings of Atlantis
Living as One, is to
Unselfishly Love All
Living as One, is to
Unselfishly Love yourself.
To find Oneness,
Unselfishly Love others,
Before Yourself.
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Public Demonstrations of Jenny and Michael Ayers for SPRING 2012
Sunday, 19th February 2012
06.30pm Tonbridge Spiritual Centre, Hadlow, Kent
Wednesday, 14th April 2012
07.30pm Crawley Spiritualist Church, Gossops Green, West Sussex
07.30pm Crawley Spiritualist Church, Gossops Green, West Sussex
Sunday, 6th May 2012
03.00pm Eastbourne Christian Spiritualist Church, Eastbourne, East Sussex
03.00pm Eastbourne Christian Spiritualist Church, Eastbourne, East Sussex
COLOUR KEY TO EVENTS
Demonstration of Clairvoyance
Divine Service including Clairvoyance
Demonstration of Clairvoyance
Divine Service including Clairvoyance
Finally we continue to send you our love and wish you well as the world continues to change. Our Twitter forecasts continue to tell us what to expect, so we know what we need to do in order to change our own outlooks and help the greater good to survive.
