NEWSLETTER NUMBER  EIGHTEEN
MUSTAFA'S MESSAGE urges us now  to 
"Start to Consider Your own  Needs."
"How often  have you heard the saying "I sacrificed  everything for them and this is how they treat me!"
"The  conditions of what we give and when we decide to give is not based on the  criteria of thanks or gratitude, but because we decided to give it on the basis  of unconditional love.  Many of us  expect some form of gratitude or appreciation and this is often  missed.
"Our lives  now are so programmed that it is expected to have or to receive and there is no  need to do anything for it.  How far  removed have we all become in this world of materialism that pain is suffered  now by the giver and it has taken the joy out of giving, because it is almost  expected.
"Our  families tend to be the worst in this scenario, because familiarity breeds  contempt and this has become a failing for so long now that if we were to  mention it, they, the family, would be incensed at our disapproval of  them.
"I believe  that we must begin to make a stand and to make it a conscious decision to give  only when we feel it is right for that individual to have and not because they,  as the family, expect it.
"This will  over time bring in respect to the giver and a greater appreciation of what is  given is demonstrated.  So many of  us have lost the vital values of considerations for a persons feelings of those  who constantly give and are never appreciated, but is expected of them to give  is always in the background.
"It is  because they have continued to give over the decades of their life that the  receivers still expects this of them.   They never think that the giver has sacrificed sometimes immense hardship  in order to provide and often at great detriment to  themselves.
"So I urge  you now, especially where there is great hardship borne to the giver, to now  start to consider your own needs, because you do not have a bottomless pit and  there must be enough funds left over for yourselves.
"It is  imperative that one looks now to ones own interests and self survival and then,  if there is sufficient funds left over and there poses no hardship to the giver,  then they can continue to give only if they feel it is right to do  so.
"We tend  to feel it is expected and so we give and never even feel that we are considered  in anyway and in this day and age that is so often the  case.
"Today,  where the economic situation is so dire especially with people on fixed incomes  and where they have to account for every penny then, to expect anything from  them should be realistically approached.
"Parents  often give to their grown up children funds and support when they are left with  next to nothing in their own account.   In the end it is the role of the giver to speak out and to say that they  are not able to give and should their situation change and if it is within their  hearts, they will give again. 
"This  allows for a settling down period to transpire and the receivers then will be  grateful perhaps for the first time in ages and an appreciation, not an  expectation, becomes the norm.
"The giver  must start to take personal responsibility not to allow expectation to be the  order of the day.  Then peace of  mind is restored.
"God bless,  Mustafa."
             Following the success of In the Stars and our websites, Jenny has been  invited by SCENE Publishing to add a  Horoscope to their magazine, which circulates in Kent  and south London 
             For those who are following the Horoscope in the In Magazine as In The Stars, this is  still being published, but we have taken the decision to publish the former now  on our websites, so those who follow this regularly will notice the change of  logo.
             These two are channelled separately as the magazines have different  publishing dates and they are designed to attract a different clientele, so  Mustafa has to show his metal twice a month now due to his  popularity.
             Two new sites have been added to www.spiritualist-guidance.org called Messages from White Feather and Music for Relaxation as we are often  asked for suggestions and so we have added those that we use ourselves for  others who may be interested..
There are Many Paths to the Lord…
Kindly sent  from a lady who lives in Ashford , Kent 
Does this spooky image  show ghost boy watching  builders demolish his old school?
By Daily Mail Reporter  Last  updated at 10:46 AM on 23rd February 2010
Ex pupil? The boy in the  image appears to be  around eight and is wearing a dark top and cap
 The ghostly image of a young boy was  captured on camera as builders demolished an old school building. John Fores,  47, insists the spectral figure was not present when he took the picture of the  part-demolished brick building. But when he looked back at the images he spotted  the boy, aged around eight with short hair and wearing a dark top, standing on  the right of the picture looking into the camera.
Mr Fores was carrying out  demolition work on the site at Anlaby   Primary School , near Hull , East Yorkshire . He  took several pictures on his mobile phone to record the demolition work. He  said: 'I took the pictures just after noon. I took a few and at the time didn't  notice anything. When I put the pictures on the computer and I saw the figure,  the hairs on the back of my neck stuck up. I couldn't believe what I had seen. I  didn't believe in ghosts, but since I got this picture I am not so  sure.'
The image of the young boy is  exceptionally clear, but the builder insists he has not altered the picture in  any way. The school, which is still in use, was built in 1936. Caretaker Gordon  Bradshaw, 54, said it has a reputation for being haunted. He said: 'I've been  here 29 years and the kids have always said there is a ghost at the school. I've  never seen anything though.'
Rob Taylor, of the Hull  Paranormal Ghost Society, said: 'I have never seen anything as clear and as  distinctive as the boy in the picture. 'I am aware of people using mobile phones  and getting orbs and misty images. It needs further investigating.'
           For all those who voted for  Annabelle Holland, thank you.  She  officially came second and is currently holidaying in Jamaica 
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Some thoughts from White        Feather 
Ignorance of Man 
Each and every person should take a look        at themselves. Look deep within and see what is real, and what is not.         How many times do people make        excuses and put off what they should be doing?  How much time do they think they        have? 
Time here is to be used wisely.  No one has the time to be ignorant        or complacent.  Every moment        spent here is for learning and creating a better understanding of their        lives. 
So it is wise to think about nourishing        yourself with lasting effects - not just the temporary satisfaction of the        selfish or material gains.  
To feel this is to be truly free and with        freedom there is everlasting happiness.  True understanding can then        manifest itself within your mind and uplift the spirit to new dimensions.         
God bless you all. 
White Feather | 
I would  ask everybody who have a blog or website put a link into ours. If you do it will  help Google to help spread the word.....
Mustafa's Death  Mask
           Please explore our Site and tell others who are like minded about  it.  Mustafa's guidance on 'The Indestructible Mind', 'Now is the Time  for Living', 'We must Trust Ourselves  to make our Lives Easier' and 'Out of  the Discomfiture a New Life is Born' is at www.spiritualist-guidance.org  with much more…
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Public Demonstrations of Jenny and Michael Ayers for MARCH and APRIL  2010
06.30pm
Sunday, 11th April 2010
06.30pm Chalice of Light,
Tuesday, 20th April 2010
07.30pm BHASVIC, 205,
Thursday, 22nd April 2010
07.30pmSeaford  Independent  Spiritualist  Church , Seaford, East  Sussex 
07.30pm
07.30pm
COLOUR KEY TO EVENTS
Demonstration of Clairvoyance
Demonstration of Clairvoyance
Divine Service including Clairvoyance
Finally we send you our love and wish you well as the World continues  to change and Mustafa's words continue to tell us what we can expect and gives  us guidance as to what we should be doing to help and survive.




